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Mar-05-13 | | Expendable Asset: <Fusilli> I got a question that relates to sociology (I think): A lot of people with psychological abnormalities are "overtreated" with the justification to "protect the public," or otherwise the patients have to deal with being pre-judged in the real world. Wouldn't this discourage people from getting treatment or counseling? I wouldn't want to be diagnosed with anything that goes on record if it isn't severe--it'll follow you for the rest of your life and is unfair how other people treat you even after you're completely well. I certainly wouldn't want someone else to screw me over "for my own good just in case, and for the public." |
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Mar-11-13
 | | Fusilli: <EA> Of course! Stigma is a big topic of study in sociology, but also psychology, social work, and other disciplines. That's why confidentiality is so important in counseling, and reducing all sorts of stigma attached to health and mental health conditions is a goal worth pursuing. |
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Mar-12-13 | | Expendable Asset: <Fusilli> What characteristics of people are currently most respected and sought after in the United States of America? |
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Mar-13-13
 | | Fusilli: The new pope is Argentine! His name is Diego Maradona. |
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Mar-13-13 | | hms123: <M>
Habemus <Fusilli>! |
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Mar-13-13
 | | Fusilli: <H> Habemus! |
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Mar-18-13 | | Expendable Asset: <Fusilli, hms123: Habemus!> So? We've had new popes for centuries and centuries. |
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Mar-18-13 | | hms123: <EA> Yes, but there's never been a <Pope Fusilli>. |
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Mar-22-13
 | | Fusilli: I am happy with Pope <Fusilli>. It was a good choice, I think. |
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Mar-24-13 | | Expendable Asset: <Fusilli> Well, I'm not so sure. I'll have to wait several decades first before I can give you an answer. |
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Mar-25-13
 | | Fusilli: <EA> He doesn't have several decades! He is 76! You have to make a decision now! |
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Mar-25-13 | | Shams: <Expendable Asset> <I'll have to wait several decades first before I can give you an answer.> Reminds me of Mao Tse Tung's famous comment about the French Revolution: "It's too soon to tell." I always thought that was a bit ridiculous. Mao made that comment in the 1970s, 180 years after Louis XVI got his. If you don't know after 180 years, when are you gonna know? |
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Mar-25-13
 | | Fusilli: <Shams> That's a good one. I didn't know that Mao quote. |
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Mar-26-13 | | Expendable Asset: Mao was good at guerilla warfare, where things often change very, very quickly and everything is always kept fluid. That might shed some light to his quote. <Fusilli> Dude, you're not 76. You're like 42-48 years old. :-P |
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Mar-27-13
 | | Fusilli: <EA> lol! |
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Mar-30-13
 | | scormus: Thanks for the info on dardanus. There is some very interesting background, and of course Dardanus (and Dardenelles). I think the straights are the ones that figure as "the clashing cliffs" in the epic "Jason and the Argonauts" in the quest for the Golden Fleece. Virgil's Aeneid is, of course, Roman but rarely can a major work have been taken more directly from much older sources, in this case Homer's Illiad. The link is completely intentional, the upstart Roman empire "needed" a root in the old Grecian civilisation. Yet apparently Virgil hiself was rather unhappy with his "masterpiece." I'll look up the opera, I never heard of it which is not surpriseing. There have been only 3 productions in the 20th century. Our nearby city has a lovely traditional opera house, but they invariably feature the very well known works, we call "potboilers." Next up for me and wife is la Traviata so I'll need a big box of tissues (for me not her). |
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Apr-09-13 | | wordfunph: Prof. <Fusilli>
Ivkov vs E Torre, 1973 |
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Aug-08-13
 | | Fusilli: Prompted by the discussion on User: WCC Editing Project. Ah... the "Dr." title... It irks me. In America, physicians have monopolized the use of the term, and paradoxically they are probably the only "doctors" out there who do not need to write a doctoral dissertation to be called so. I insist in calling them "physicians". Furthermore, the use of "doctor" when dealing with patients puts distance between physicians and their clients. (I hate the term "patient" too, which means that you have to be passive and obedient when dealing with The Doctor.) Physicians should introduce themselves as "Hello, I am Mike/Susan/fill-in-the name, and I will try to help you feel better, if that is okay with you." That would improve communication with only positive outcomes, but "doctors" like to impose hierarchy and keep the upper hand in dealing with the "patient". When someone calls me "doctor" I tell them that I prefer "Professor"... every PhD is a doctor, but not everyone is a professor, and also if I am called professor in public no one will assume that I am particularly qualified to rush in to help if someone suddenly needs medical help. |
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Aug-08-13
 | | WCC Editing Project: My dear <Fusilli>
As always, a well reasoned and convincing argument. Both my Mom and my Sister were nurses and they couldn't stand doctors. Apparently they are even more condescending when you work with them. Nowadays, there's an entertaining phenomenon known as "Internet-inspired
Doctor Harrassment."
I did it myself not a week ago.
Here's how to play:
1. Research what might be wrong with you.
2. See your doctor.
3. When your doctor starts acting like he's "in charge" of your case, start peppering him with questions. protip: this doesn't work unless you actually do good research and know what you're talking about. How do you know if you've succeeded?
Every time you leave your Doctor, he/she will say "The most important thing to remember is stop reading the internet." Finally,
QUESTION: In the context of your argument, what would you say about the cases of <Who> and <Suess>? |
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Aug-08-13
 | | OhioChessFan: Well, Seuss would like you to spell his name right.
I have a dentist who politely but firmly insists on being called by his first name. As for a doctor expecting to be called doctor, there is something to be said for a title of respect to a person who you're trusting your life to. |
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Aug-08-13
 | | WCC Editing Project: <OhioEditingFan>
You're actually never off duty are you?
Admirable. |
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Aug-23-13
 | | Fusilli: <WCCEP> Awesome strategy! Gotta love the internet and its empowering capacity. I don't know what to say about Dr Who and Dr Seuss! The Daleks are awesome, though. "Exterminate!" <OCF> Good point... which reminds me of another one of my pet peeves. The overwhelming majority of times that people see a doctor, they are not saving anyone's life. They are just providing some help to improve people's (strictly biological) quality of life, hopefully extending life spans, but so do potable water, good nutrition, a good job, a clean environment, low levels of stress, exercise, a supportive network of friends/family/community/church, etc. The overwhelming majority of times doctors do not save lives in any clear way, and I would venture to say that saving a life in a clear way (emergency! here's the doctor! life saved!) is probably a rare occasion for the large majority of doctors (exception made of ER doctors, military doctors, and few others). When this happens, when a doctor saves a life, I think it is a most respectable and noble thing. Yet, 1) with few exceptions they are paid very handsomely to do this, and 2) they run no risk whatsoever of injury to themselves. When a fireman goes into a building on fire and saves someone, that is heroic. The fireman puts himself at risk. Same can be said for the police officer who gets into a shootout. Those people are saving lives while putting their own at risk, and they are not exaclty paid handsomely to do so. I really have no problem calling a physician doctor, and I surely do so, but it annoys me when they downgrade me to "Mr. Sana", which seems to happen often as soon as I step in a doctor's office. And they know what I do for a living, since they know your demographic info right away. That suggests to me that they love to impose hierarchy. My experience with the Vanderbilt Medical Center, however, has been quite nice. One of their physicians called me professor right away. My dentist does the same. But then, what about the occasional doctor that calls me "buddy"? I guess that's why people call them "doc"... I guess that is the informal counterpart to "buddy". Is it? |
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Aug-23-13
 | | Fusilli: BTW, a quick clarification: I don't go through life expecting people to call me professor. In fact, I prefer to just go by my name. But when someone introduces themselves by their professional title, I expect to be granted the equivalent courtesy. |
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Aug-31-13
 | | Fusilli: GTM, just played:
Korchnoi vs Spassky, 1956.
YOU ARE PLAYING THE ROLE OF KORCHNOI.
Your score: 63 (par = 55)
It's a nice game. Positional, and Korchnoi keeps things as simple as possible. |
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Sep-03-13
 | | Fusilli: Korchnoi vs Geller, 1958.
YOU ARE PLAYING THE ROLE OF KORCHNOI.
Your score: 52 (no par)
This may have been my worst GTM ever. First time I end up "no par"... I found it quite difficult, needless to say. |
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